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Good hearing from you,i wrote you on the ss,sorry it took me this long to write... I thought I had to write you soon , I just wanna clearify your thoughts about me letting you know who I am and making things straight so we can both decide if we want the aquaintance to continue,i thought it would not be nice discussing this on the site where we met.I work here with a charity organisation as a volunteer helping the less previledged kids, due to the nature of my work,I think we are far apart at the moment, I love kids so much,they are victims of circumstances most of whom were orphaned, Yes I am from Newyork because thats where my Dad's from but I lost him while I was just a kid too, I never got much of him ,so I have not spent most of my life in the states but I love to meet and make friends with people from the USA where my Dad is from, I have lived with my mother in the capetown of south Africa a beautiful city most of my life, she is originally from the Australia, when I was a kid we used to travel between the states and Autralia, it was always fun,but after my Dad's death she relocated to South Africa, where we both Lived till I grew up to be a lady , I am from a good home, well brought up with good education,i am presently doing my voluntary work in Nigeria.. I did not come into the site to meet people that will hurt me, or think less of me, I like to meet geniune people, who would not mind sharing anything with me, who will be my friend and who will respect me for who I am and not wanting to take advantage of me,who knows where that might get us maybe after some correspondence....I am not a one night stand type, so if that is what you are looking for, I think I am the wrong person.... So tell me....What do you look for the most in a woman..is it looks..sense of humor...intelligence...?? There are alot of factors involved in a relationship that has chemestry and much has been written about that subject over the years...i think it is something you cant put a finger on..it just is or isn't.Do you agree? These days it is sooo hard to find the right one...but i do believe that when you do...you have to nuture it and make it grow into a lasting thing because finding that special person is not a common happening. Some say that it only happens once in a lifetime..not sure about that but i do know that it doesnt happen every day.I long to have that in my life...i have alot to give in a relationship and think that if both are on the same page that it can be incredible. I get mails ever day in the site, but mostly from some